Tuesday, August 30, 2011

You said it. I got it. (explanation to self)

So my friend who loves putting up new status messages on fbook writes some pretty smart stuff now and then. Recently she wrote:

"There are two kinda of friends in this world. The one's that will help you when you have a problem with somebody else and the other who will stick it out even if the problem is to do with them."

I did not realize how this idea got stuck in some dark corner of my head and then like a ghost for the,last few days evaluation sheets of friends keep jumping out of forgotten spaces. The second kind are rare. Cherish and love them. There is a greater chance you will have them by your death bed. (Actually that's easy.Any friend pumped on nostalgia and sympathy could to do that.) You will still have them after you've had a horrible day, where you messed up badly or simply had a break down. Technically, since you're fighting-they shouldn't care. But they will. Respect them for their faith and patience to work things out.

WARNING: NEVER PUSH THEM INTO CATEGORY 1 BY BEING A SUPER BITCH.